Live demo — England, Scotland & Wales

Grief is hard enough
without the paperwork

HerdenkSamen is the first complete digital bereavement platform built specifically for UK families. Beautiful memorial pages, step-by-step Probate and Confirmation guides, grief support, and connections to trusted local funeral directors. See it for yourself — free.

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✓ Free for families✓ UK GDPR compliant✓ Scotland-specific legal guides✓ No credit card
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🔒UK GDPR compliant
🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿Scottish law supported
📋Probate & Confirmation guides
Free to start
💙Grief support included
🏢NAFD & SAFD registered partners
Why HerdenkSamen?

Not just another memorial website

There are hundreds of tribute sites. HerdenkSamen is something entirely different — a complete bereavement platform that covers every aspect of loss, from legal administration to lasting remembrance.

🇬🇧UK-specific

Built for UK & Scottish law

  • Probate guide for England & Wales
  • Confirmation guide for Scotland (Sheriff Court)
  • Prior Rights & Legitim explained
  • HMRC Inheritance Tax checklist
  • Tell Us Once — notify all departments
  • DWP Bereavement Support Payment checker
💙Human first

Far more than a tribute page

  • Beautiful, permanent memorial page
  • Family collaboration in real time
  • Photos, videos, stories — unlimited
  • Private messaging between relatives
  • Grief support and professional referrals
  • Digital estate management tools
🏢For professionals

The only UK funeral network

  • NAFD & SAFD registered funeral directors
  • Transparent quote comparison
  • Case management and family comms
  • QR codes on order-of-service cards
  • Supplier directory — florists, stonemasons
  • Pre-need planning tools
Platform preview

See the platform in action

A real memorial page — exactly as your family would see it

app.herdenksamen.nl/herdenking/margaret-thompson
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Margaret Thompson

14 Sept 1941 — 8 Feb 2024

📸 Photos (63)
🎵 Music
📝 Stories (18)
📅 Events
💌 Messages (52)

📋 Probate Checklist

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James T.
2 days ago❤️

Mum loved her Sunday walks across the Peaks. She always said the fresh air cleared her mind. I can still hear her laugh echoing across the moors.

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Sarah & Mark
5 days ago🍰

Gran made the best Victoria sponge in Yorkshire. Every Sunday after church without fail. The kitchen always smelled of vanilla and warmth.

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Thompson Family
2 weeks ago🕊️

The service at St Andrew's was everything she would have wanted — simple, dignified, full of the hymns she loved. Thank you all for coming.

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Key features

Everything your family needs,
in one place

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Free for all families

A beautiful, permanent memorial page

Create a lasting digital space where family and friends from across the UK — and the world — share photos, videos, stories and messages. No subscription. No expiry date. Always free.

  • Elegant, customisable layout
  • Unlimited photos and videos
  • Share by link or QR code
  • Collaborative — whole family can contribute
  • Digital condolence book
Create my memorial page

“After Dad passed, we had no idea how to apply for Probate. HerdenkSamen walked us through every step — we didn't miss a single deadline.”

— James T., Sheffield

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UK & Scotland specific

Probate, Confirmation & estate — step by step

England and Wales use Probate. Scotland uses Confirmation through the Sheriff Court — with entirely different rules around Prior Rights and Legitim. Our guides cover both, plus HMRC, DWP benefits and the Tell Us Once service.

  • Personalised checklist for your situation
  • UK legal deadlines automatically flagged
  • Probate (England/Wales) step-by-step
  • Confirmation (Scotland) Sheriff Court guide
  • DWP Bereavement Support Payment checker
  • HMRC Inheritance Tax guide (£325k threshold)
See the estate checklist
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UK funeral network

Find a trusted funeral director near you

Our growing network of NAFD and SAFD registered funeral directors is carefully selected. Compare clearly, read verified reviews, and choose with confidence — at the most difficult moment.

  • Search by postcode and specialism
  • Transparent pricing — no hidden costs
  • Verified reviews from real families
  • Natural burial & green funeral specialists
  • Direct communication via the platform
  • Pre-need planning for future peace of mind
Find a funeral director
🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿Scotland specifically

Most bereavement platforms ignore Scottish law. We built for it.

Confirmation, Prior Rights, Legitim, Executors-Dative, small estate procedures — Scottish inheritance law is complex and entirely different from English Probate. Our dedicated Scotland guide explains every step in plain English.

Explore Scotland guide

Testimonials

What our users say

★★★★★

After Mum passed, I had no idea where to start. HerdenkSamen gave us a beautiful place to share her life — and guided us through Confirmation step by step. I honestly could not have managed without it.

Helen W.

Family, Edinburgh

★★★★★

The platform brings us warm leads from families who have already researched their options and trust us. Our first conversations are far more meaningful than cold enquiries ever were.

David R.

Funeral Director, Manchester

★★★★★

Family came from all over — Aberdeen, London, even New Zealand — and everyone could add their memories to Gran's page. It brought us together when we most needed it.

The Morrison Family

Family, Glasgow

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